||[Feb. 21st, 2005|06:24 pm]
Ask the marauders
The last thread was getting a little cluttered, so here's a new one!
Once again, free-for-all: ask for advice, information, or just any silly questions you happen to think of.
All four Marauders: lune_papier , therebel_prince , agent_prongsie , 1980pettigrew
Lily, Alice, Frank: lily_ceadsearc , a_mad_teaparty , _frankly_mydear
Lucius, Regulus: bucketsofangst , theotherblack
The Prewett Brothers: betterintwos
Snape (He's nocturnal. And anti-social): potionsmaster13
Andromeda (Shall give her a nudge!)
E-mail teraulia[at]yahoo[dot]com with any comments or questions.
Not entirely a put down. It means he trusts you as a friend and to be able to provide intellegent and witty conversation and to BE THERE when shit hits the fan but right now he's just looking for something pretty to stick his penis into.
Quite honestly, most boys that age are looking for just that. It's not really an insult to anyone just a time in their lives when they're being controlled by their hormones.
I'm sure you've heard this countless times but girls mature faster than boys and while you're probably 14 or 15 when you're scampering around really itching to do SOMETHING physically intimate and usually grow out of that irresponsible state by the time you reach college (usually, not always, tree bark girl as example A but then again I'd rather talk to a girl than shag her any day of the week...i'm rambling in parentheses...), boys are juuuuuust reaching it and they need a few years to get their priorities straight and their hormones in check.
And if Sirius asks...ah, nevermind, he won't believe this came out of my mouth anyway.
Hope things improve for you, hun.
Great. So I'm not pretty... but I have a great personality! *grumble*
Thanks for clearing this up!
NO no no, didn't say you're not pretty. Ugh. See...*points to self* boy = stupid.
You may, in fact, be pretty...er...that doesn't sound right. The point is that you're not some vapid...thing that he doesn't have to worry about getting attached to...
I'm just digging myself in deeper aren't I?
It's okay, honest. He and I have an odd relationship... for one thing, he's 19 and I'm 40. We met doing a show at the local community theatre. I have a radio show in the mornings and he comes by and brings me doughnuts and sits and talks to me. Everyone confides in me, and he's no exception.
But it's strange... after we've been talking a while, he'll suddenly decide "ooops, time to leave" and I have to say "Wait a minute, let me start this next song so I can give you a hug." But nope, he's outta there. All of a sudden he'll keep his (physical distance).
Boys are weird.
I've got a right nice pile developed, if you'd like to have some.
I might take you up on that.